Healing Journey Collective
Couples therapist · Calgary

Couples therapist in Calgary — find your way back to each other.

Stuck in the same argument, drifting apart, or rebuilding after infidelity? Gottman Method marriage and couples therapy in Calgary can help you move forward together.

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Many couples come to therapy feeling unheard, unappreciated, or simply distant. Communication, trust, parenting, finances, in-laws, intimacy — small things can grow until they feel impossible to talk about.

Our therapists blend the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) — two of the most trusted, research-supported approaches to couples work. We focus on the patterns underneath the arguments and the connection underneath the patterns.

We also support couples exploring or practicing consensual non-monogamy (CNM) with a non-judgmental, affirming lens — including LGBTQIA+ couples seeking affirming relationship counselling.

Looking for a skills-based group experience? See our Gottman Seven Principles couples workshop (virtual virtually across Alberta, Nova Scotia and New Brunswick). Start with a free 15-minute consultation to explore couples therapy.

Does this sound like you?

You might recognise some of these.

You keep having the same argument
You feel more like roommates than partners
You’re recovering from infidelity or a rupture
You want to deepen intimacy and connection
You’re navigating a major life transition together
You’re considering or practicing CNM
How couples therapy can help

Small shifts that add up to real change.

  • Break the cycle of the same recurring argument
  • Feel heard, understood and appreciated again
  • Rebuild trust and safety after a rupture or affair
  • Communicate needs without it turning into a fight
  • Reconnect emotionally and physically
  • Navigate parenting, money or in-laws as a team
Our approach

How we work with this in session.

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Gottman Connect Relationship Assessment available to inform your work together

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Personalized treatment plan based on what you both want

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Tools for communication, repair and emotional safety

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Work at a pace that protects the relationship

What to expect

Your first steps, gently.

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    Couples therapy usually begins with a free 15-minute consultation, followed by an initial session where both partners share their perspective on what’s working and what feels stuck. Many couples also complete the Gottman Connect Relationship Assessment, which gives your therapist a detailed, research-based picture of your relationship’s strengths and challenges.

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    From there, sessions focus on the patterns underneath your arguments — not on deciding who’s “right.” Your therapist helps you slow down heated moments, understand what each of you is really needing, and practise new ways of repairing and reconnecting.

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    Sessions are typically weekly or every other week to start, then spaced out as things improve. Some couples come for a focused set of sessions around a specific challenge; others stay longer to rebuild after a deeper rupture. You set the pace together.

The first step is a free 15-minute consultation — we’ll answer your questions and help you decide if it’s the right fit.

Ready to reach out?

Book, or send us a message.

If you’re ready, you can book your free 15-minute couples therapy consultation online. Prefer to ask a question first? Send us a message and we’ll reply within one business day.

Or call 587-220-7789.

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Good to know

Questions people often ask.

How long does couples therapy take?
It depends on your goals and what brought you in. Some couples notice meaningful shifts within a handful of sessions; rebuilding after a significant breach of trust usually takes longer. We’ll talk openly about pacing and check in on progress as we go.
What if my partner is hesitant to come?
That’s very common. It can help to start with the free consultation so your partner can ask questions and get a feel for the process before committing. Many people feel more open once they realize therapy isn’t about being blamed.
Do you work with LGBTQIA+ and non-monogamous couples?
Yes. We offer affirming, non-judgmental support for couples of all identities and relationship structures, including those exploring or practising consensual non-monogamy. Learn more about our LGBTQIA+ affirming therapy.
Is couples therapy available virtually?
Yes — we offer couples therapy in person at our Southport SW office in Calgary and virtually across Alberta, Nova Scotia and New Brunswick.
Begin gently

Take the first step, today.

Book a complimentary 15-minute consultation. Ask questions, get a feel for our approach, and decide if it’s the right fit — no pressure.